Born: May 12, 1937 - Deceased: 20220812
Janice “Jan” C. Berner, nee Mayfield, 85, born May 12, 1937 to Clara N. (Smith) and Walter J. Mayfield in Deepwater, Missouri. Her Lord and Savior Jesus escorted Jan into Heaven on August 12, 2022.
She was preceded in death by her:
- Mother and father
- Two infant sisters: Wathena and Maxine
- Brother: Perry Mayfield
- Step-sister: Marjorie Bass
- Nephew: Forrest Wayne Bass
- Brothers-in-law
- Walter Bass
- Earl Struense
She is survived by her:
- Husband: Timothy Berner
- Daughters
- Tami (Paul) Werries
- Tierney (Tim) Brumfiel
- Son: Mark (Brenda) Henkel
- Daughters
- Eight grandchildren
- Kary Henkel
- Alex Khoury
- Sydnee Khoury
- Shea Brumfiel
- TJ Brumfiel
- Paige Brumfiel
- Alyssa Brumfiel
- Jessica Brumfiel
- Three great grandchildren
- Dallas Long
- Danielle Long
- Dylan Long
- Three daughters by marriage to Tim:
- Vicki Kozak
- Pam (Robb) Seipp
- Rhonda McGowan
- their children:
- Justin (Courtney) Adams
- Danielle (Aaron) Pinkel
- Taylor Seipp
- Neill McGowan
- Four great grandchildren:
- Camryn Adams
- Liliahna
- Memphis
- Juliette Pinkel
- Four great grandchildren:
- their children:
- Sister: Sharon (Charles) Justice,
- Three nieces and 1 nephew
- Kay Freeman
- Melissa Ekeland
- Kim Hughes
- Jeff Hughes
- Sister-in-law: Mary Mayfield
- Brother and sister-in-law: Rich and Sherry Struense
Jan graduated from Deepwater High School in 1955 and then from Central Missouri University with a B.S. degree in Business Education in 1959. She then graduated from University of Illinois with a M.S. degree in Business Education in 1972. She took 2 years of Sign Language classes at Southwestern Illinois College (SWIC).
Jan taught at Trico Community School, Campbell Hill, Illinois in 1959-1960; Belleville High School West 1962-1965; Belleville Area College for 17 years part-time. She taught home-bound students for District 201 and also taught business classes in the Manpower program for SIU in Edwardsville for one year. She finished her teaching career at Mascoutah High School from 1978-2000 where she retired.
In her retirement she was a busy lady! She interpreted for the deaf at Meadow Heights Baptist Church, taught bible study in the home of a deaf family; member of a bowling team, played golf, loved to knit, dance, travel and read. She traveled to many countries and the US and enjoyed many cruises! She lived a full life!
Jan accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior at an early age and made a new commitment at the age of 16. She was a member of Villa Hills Baptist Church for many years. She was a member of St. Matthew United Methodist Church where she sang alto in the choir. She was a member of Meadow Heights Baptist Church as an interpreter for the deaf, taught Sunday school class for the deaf. She also worked in Matamoras Children’s Home in Matamoras, Mexico on mission trips.
Jan started taking sign languages classes in 1996 followed by two years at SWIC to study formal classes in sign language and deaf culture. She interpreted for a young boy at New Baden Methodist Church for one year and for many years was the interpreter for the deaf at Meadow Heights Baptist Church. She loved being a vessel for Christ!
Jan grew up in a small town in Missouri in a family of three children and a mother. Her father, James Walter Mayfield died six weeks before she was born in May 1937. Her father died of bleeding ulcers in a Kansas City hospital. Her mother, Clara Mayfield,was a loving and hard working woman who made herself available to her children all her life. She was there when Jan needed her and they shared many times of talking while drinking coffee. Her mother lived in Deepwater, Missouri and Jan in Belleville, Illinois so on Saturday mornings at 9:00 am they had their time to talk. Jan patterned her life with her children after the loving relationship she had with her mother.
Jan attended a school with all 12 grades in one location. She graduated from the eight grade as Salutatorian and from high school as a Valedictorian. She attended college at Central Missouri State College and was third in her graduating class. Her major was Business Education with a minor in English. She married in 1958 to Lyle Henkel and moved to Campbell Hill, Illinois where she taught for one semester, then retire to have a son, Mark in 1960. She moved to Belleville early in the 1960s.
Jan worked at Scott AFB for several years and then was hired by Belleville Township High School West to teach. She taught there till in 1965 when her daughter Tami was born. After that she taught home-bound students part-time at Belleville Area College and one year in the Man Power Program for SIU-Edwardsville. In 1969 she had her second daughter, Tierney. She taught part-time till Tierney was in the 3rd grade. Jan started back to college at University of Illinois and graduated 3rd in her class with a Masters’ Degree in Business Education. She taught at Mascoutah High School and retired in 2000 after 22 years there. Teaching was a wonderful vocation as she loved the teenagers she was privileged to teach.
She married Earl Struense and had five wonderful years with him until his death in 1997. They spent a lot of their time traveling, swing dance and ballroom dance at the Moose. Although never planning on marrying again after being a widow for nine years, God blessed Jan again when she met Tim Berner and was married in May 2006. They had a wonderful marriage until her death! He was an extraordinary man who was by her side till her last breath!
Jan always tried to be available to her children and grandchildren by helping them out. She was always there to help them move into new homes or just talk on the phone at any hour of the day or night. She became a master at texting her grandchildren even on her daily walks outside or in the St. Clair mall.
Jan always said, ”I have tried to live my life for my Lord and Savior and to be an example to my children and grandchildren. I hope I have succeeded…”
She was a beautiful example of trusting Jesus in every aspect of her life as all her children and grandchildren are saved and believers in Christ. They will see her one day in heaven! She will be missed but that smile will remain in our hearts forever!
Visitation: Visitation from 10:00 am – 10:30 am on Friday, September 23, 2022 at St. Matthews UMC, 1200 Moreland Drive, Belleville, IL.
Funeral: Memorial service will be held at 10:30 am on Friday, September 23, 2022 at St. Matthews UMC, with Rev Bob Swickard officiating. Interment will follow at Valhalla Gardens of Memory, Belleville, IL.
10 Comments
My condolences
Jan was a. very special lady. Much of what you shared I did not know about he but knew she loved the Lord, served Him, loved her family and her church. Had many chats with Jan through the years. We know where she will spend eternity.
Tim and family: I’m very sorry for your loss. She was a great lady!
Sure will miss this wonderful smiling lady. When I first met her through Pastor Marva and her Mom Melba Henderson. I fell in love with Jan. She had a beautiful heart of gold. I’ll always remember her in my heart. Jan, I will not say goodbye. I say I’ll see you in heaven soon. ❤️🤟🏼
Tim and family – Fond memories of working with Jan at Mascoutah High School. She was always so proud of her children and grandchildren. I do remember when Jan began learning sign language mainly due to the fact that one of her grandchildren was deaf. That was quite an accomplishment. So sorry for your loss but be comforted in knowing that Jan is with the Lord. Please accept our sympathy – Dan and Marsha
Dear Tim, Tami, Mark and Tierney,
My heart is broken for you over the loss of Jan. What a wonderful lady! I still have fond memories of our times together in choir at St. Matthew. I will never forget her big, beautiful smile! Please know that I am praying that you will feel God‘s loving arms wrapped around you, holding you close and filling you with His peace in the days ahead.
I met Jan at the Manpower Program for SIU. She tried to teach me to knit, but that didn’t happen, to her dismay.
Loved her sweet disposition, sense of humor, and endless energy. St. Matthew, singing in the choir, and sharing many friends and blessed times. Looking forward to seeing Jan again when pain will be no more.
You are all in my prayers,
Tim, Mark, Tami, Tierney. and Grandchildren
So many childhood memories. Your mom was always so kind to me. Thinking of you all.
Will be thinking of Jan ‘s family with many prayers tomorrow, the 23rd of September 2022.
I’m not sure if many of you realize that she and I go WAY back, as we met as college freshman at Central Missouri State University in the Fall of 1956. We stayed in contact all these years. The last time we actually saw one another was at the 50th year reunion of our graduation in 2010. She was an unforgettable friend and I loved her very much.
Tim and Family.
We adored Jan and will miss her greatly, that is, until we see her again. Our condolences and prayers go out to each of you as you mourn. As Pastor Bob noted, we have her in our memories to cherish and enjoy, until we meet again.