Pamela S. Schlotmann, nee Graves, 65, of Red Bud, IL, born Thursday, August 5, 1954, in East St. Louis, IL, passed away Friday, May 8, 2020 at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital in O’Fallon, IL.
She was preceded in death by her:
- parents, James Howe and Carole Jean, nee Carter, Graves, Sr.
- 3 Sisters:
- Kathy Dressel
- Penny Lee Graves
- Traci Ann Graves
- nephew, Dustin Graves
- great-nephew, Skylar Kite
Surviving are her:
- sister, Candi Johnson of Lebanon, IL
- brother, James Howe Graves, Jr. of Oregon
- uncle and aunt, Wayne and Julia Graves of Cleveland, OH
- dear nieces and nephews
Memorials: Memorials may be made to the American Cancer Society or Hospice of your choice.
Funeral: Private family services.
7 Comments To "Pamela S. Schlotmann"
#1 Comment By Nancy k kane On May 13, 2020 @ 12:19 pm
RIP Pam, you were one of a kind. Will miss you terribly.
#2 Comment By Carole On May 23, 2020 @ 12:58 am
Where do i even begin to describe what this woman meant to me… Honestly i dont know if there are enough words or paper in the world…. But im gonna try too, she was so much more than just my aunt she raised me and was there for me no matter what always worrying about me when i should have been the one worried about her but that wasnt her she always told me im gonna be fine baby dont you worry…man im gonna miss this amazily awesome woman so much and in my heart is where i will carry her until we meet again.. Love you with all that i am aunt pammy love carole jeanie
#3 Comment By Michelle Graves On May 15, 2020 @ 5:17 pm
I love you, Aunt Pammy!! So many things I wanna say…rest in paradise til we meet again..give Traci a huge hug from me, and my son too…i will miss you the rest of my days, birthday buddy…godspeed???
#4 Comment By Amanda Treichler On May 15, 2020 @ 5:51 pm
My Pammy you were one amazing woman. You gave so much of yourself to help others. Whether it was a meal, a shirt, or a home, you were the one we called on.
Beautiful auntie, you showed me strength as a woman. Your motto was don’t take s%@t, and boy you didn’t. I miss you deeply and will carry you in my heart and in my spirit for the rest of my life. I love you My Pammy. ❤
#5 Comment By Dawn Cross On May 16, 2020 @ 2:32 pm
I will never forget all the help you had helped me with my children and would be there no matter what . Love you Pam .
#6 Comment By Dawn Cross On May 16, 2020 @ 3:01 pm
You will be so missed and you’ve helped me with my children whenever you could . Rest in Peace Pam . Love you
#7 Comment By Lynda Brandenburg On March 9, 2023 @ 8:21 pm
I miss this lady more than words can say she was always in my life