Helen M. Shalenko, nee Tweedy, 96, of Fairview Heights, IL, born Sunday, August 19, 1923, in East St. Louis, IL, passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 18, 2020 at home surrounded by her family.
Helen was a member of Bethany Lutheran Church Fairview Heights, IL. She was a member of the Ladies Aid Society, a Horticulture enthusiast, and enjoyed making beautiful arrangements for many occasions.
She was preceded in death by her:
- Husband: John Shalenko
- Son: Bill Wilkens
- Daughter: Jerrilynn Bryam
- Daughter-in-law; Kristy Shalenko
- Parents: Harry Tweedy & Helen, nee Henson, Tweedy;
- Brothers
- James Tweedy
- William Tweedy
- Robert Tweedy
- Sisters
- Martha Dickhans
- Dorothy Qualls
Surviving are her:
- Children
- Pam (Clete) Holliday of Millstadt, IL
- John (Patrice) Shalenko of Maryville, IL
- Mark Shalenko of Fairview Heights, IL
- Robin Smith of Fairview Heights, IL
- 19 grandchildren
- 40 great grandchildren
- 3 great-great grandchildren
-Blessed are the Peacemakers for they are the children of God.- Matthew 5:9.
Memorials: Memorials may be made to Bethany Lutheran or Hospice of Southern Illinois.
Visitation: Visitation from 9:00 am – 11:00 am Wednesday, January 22, 2020 at Bethany Lutheran Church in Fairview Heights, IL.
Funeral: A funeral service will be held at 11:00 am on Wednesday, January 22, 2020 at Bethany Lutheran Church with Peter Ill officiating, Interment will follow at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, St. Louis, MO.
5 Comments To "Helen M. Shalenko"
#1 Comment By Angela McCracken On January 19, 2020 @ 11:07 pm
Robin and Mark. I have been thinking of both of you for quite some time and often. You both have had the same situation of living at home caring for your mom as my brother Jim and I have been doing next door to you. I share your grief and pray for peace for all of your family. I have always enjoyed talking with both your mom and dad. My fondest and funniest memory of their lives is when my husband Scott, then boyfriend, went over to your house around the holidays and when we came into the entry way we bumped into the hanging mistletoe. We laughed and thought it must be hanging low because of your parents heights. Sweet memory.
#2 Comment By Katherine Hines On January 20, 2020 @ 10:25 pm
A wonderful friend and neighbor who will be missed. May the Lord comfort all the family. God bless you all.
#3 Comment By Cathy Fox On January 21, 2020 @ 11:00 pm
Pam,,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your mom. When we were children, I always thought she was so nice to be around and such a pretty lady too! ?
Sincerely,
Cathy Hamilton Fox
#4 Comment By Jim Raab On January 22, 2020 @ 10:54 am
Condolences to the Shalenko family.
Helen was a sweet old gal.
She gave my mother many tips on growing flowers for her garden.
#5 Comment By Benny Ogle On January 25, 2020 @ 2:09 pm
Dear Pam and family,
I’m so sorry to hear about Helen’s passing. I’ve got such good memories of her as the fun mom at your parties and overnights. My prayers are with you, hugs.